In short
- A video is only useful if each relative can open it and follow it.
- Think about the device, the sound, the text size and the language for each viewer.
- Captions built into the picture show on any device; a separate file needs a player that supports it.
- Ask for the versions you need before filming, and test one before you share widely.
Plan the viewing before the filming ends. Make a short list of who will watch, on what device, and what might get in their way. Then ask for the versions that solve those problems, and try one on a real device before you send it to the whole family.
Who is watching, and what do they need?
A wedding, birthday or reunion video often travels far: a grandmother’s living room TV, an uncle’s old phone, cousins abroad on weak internet. Think about each person.
| Viewer | Possible difficulty | What can help |
|---|---|---|
| Grandparent who is hard of hearing | Cannot follow speeches or vows | Captions in the picture, a clear audio mix, a TV or tablet with good speakers |
| Older relative with weaker eyesight | Text and small phone screens are hard to read | A TV-ready version, larger caption text, high contrast |
| Relative who reads Chinese better than English | Misses the speeches | Subtitles in a second language, checked by someone fluent |
| Cousin abroad on a slow connection | Large files will not load | A lighter copy, shared by link, plus the full copy for download |
| Young children and tired adults | Short attention | A short highlight, with the full recording kept for later |
Use this as a starting list. Your family will have its own cases, and you know them best.
How should the video reach each person?
The delivery route matters as much as the film. Ask yourself:
- Does the person watch on a TV? A file on a USB drive or a casting link may be easier than a phone download.
- Does the person trust and use messaging apps? If so, send a short clip there, and give the link to the full video separately.
- Is the link private? A private link or password-protected folder is better than a public post when the video shows children or private ceremonies. The version planner can help you list who may see which cut.
- Will it still open in five years? Keep one copy on a drive you control. The archive planner helps you think about storage.
Captions: in the picture or as a file?
Captions burned into the picture show on every device, including an old TV, which makes them the safest choice for a mixed family. A separate caption file is more flexible, because viewers can switch it on or off and choose a language, but the player has to support it. Burned-in captions or separate caption files compares the two. For many families, receiving both versions is the simplest answer.
Captions also need checking. Names of relatives and mixed Malay, English and dialect speech are where automatic text often goes wrong, so ask a family member to read the text before you share it. See checking automatically generated captions.
Sound matters more than screens
If a speech is hard to hear in the room, it is hard to caption and hard to watch later. Tell us before the day which speeches or blessings matter most. We plan microphones and positions around them, and tell you ahead of time what the venue allows.
Before you send it to everyone
- Play the video on the oldest device a relative will use.
- Check the volume at a normal level, without headphones.
- Read the captions from the sofa distance, not from arm’s length.
- Ask one relative with a different need to watch and tell you what was hard.
- Fix what you can, then share.
What we confirm for your event
- Which versions you receive, such as a highlight, a full recording and a lighter copy for phones.
- Whether captions are built into one version and kept as a separate file in another.
- Whether a second language is added, and who checks it.
- How the files are delivered to the family.
For the wider planning, see our guide to family celebrations and personal milestones, our captions and subtitles service and the caption and language planner.
Tell us who will watch and on what, such as a grandparent on a TV or cousins abroad on their phones, and we will suggest the versions and captions to ask for.
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- W3C WAI, Planning audio and video media, checked 2026-10-06
- W3C WAI, Captions/Subtitles, checked 2026-10-06
Checked on the date shown. Rules and venue requirements change, so confirm them for your own event.